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The first picture just upsets me so much.

Look at him.

There’s not a trace of the usual smile that he usually wears. He’s not giggling, and waving to the fans. No, he’s staring straight ahead, trying to ignore them. He is clearly uncomfortable. Look at his hand. Do you see where he is gripping the seat, trying not to lose it? Niall doesn’t like being surrounded by large crowds. They make him nervous, and as you can clearly see from this picture, he’s pretty nervous. He’s trying not to show it, but he is. I can just imagine him sitting there, his heart beating wildly in his chest,  and his head starting to ache from all the screaming, and pounding on the windows, combined with the feeling of being trapped. I can just see him trying to draw deep breaths to keep himself calm.

Then, in the second picture, you can understand why. I’m not claustrophobic, I can handle being surrounded by large crowds, but even I would be upset by that. The girls are literally SWARMING around the car. All he wants to do is leave, and there are girls all around him, not letting him.

That is just so rude. Seriously. It’s horrible. I know how exciting it must be to see Niall up close. I really do, trust me. But the thing is, Niall is still a human being. He still gets scared, he still gets upset, he still gets angry. He’s not a doll on a string that everybody can use whenever they like, not caring what he’s feeling. I’m sure that Niall would like some privacy. He’s still a teenage boy. Crowding around him isn’t going to make him like you anymore. I mean, I know that he loves his fans, but what I mean is, he’s not going to think, “Oh, that girl right there, one of the mutiple ones here who is not respecting me, yeah, she’s the one.” And that’s what it all boils down to, really. Respect. Which would you prefer more, an upset and unhappy Niall, or a happy Niall who is comfortable? I prefer happy Niall. If I was there, knowing how Niall feels about being in large crowds, I would have stood from afar, and watched him in the taxi, content with the fact that I even caught a glimpse of him. I wouldn’t run up to the car, and start screaming, and banging on it, and making a fool of myself. That would get me nowhere. I’m sure that Niall would have loved to not have been mobbed today. It just pisses me off.

I know that I wouldn’t want to be in that situation today, would you? Uh, no.

Point being, things like this are quite rude. The boys are more than happy to stop on the street, and take pictures with fans, or do signings, and all those things. But they aren’t to be controlled by their fans. They do have lives, apart from the group, contrary to popular beliefs.

Give them some space, sometimes.

Actually think about their feelings.
The first picture just upsets me so much.

, and waving to the fans. No, he’s staring straight ahead, trying to ignore them. He is clearly uncomfortable. Look at his hand. Do you see where he is gripping the seat, trying not to lose it? NiaYll doesn’t like being surrounded by large crowds. They make him nervous, and as you can clearly see from this picture, he’s pretty nervous. He’s trying not to show it, but he is. I can just imagine him sitting there, his heart beating wildly in his chest,  and his head starting to ache from all the screaming, and pounding on the windows, combined with the feeling of being trapped. I can just see him trying to draw deep breaths to keep himself calm.

Then, in the second picture, you can understand why. I’m not claustrophobic, I can handle being surrounded by large crowds, but even I would be upset by that. The girls are literally SWARMING around the car. All he wants to do is leave, and there are girls all around him, not letting him.

That is just so rude. Seriously. It’s horrible. I know how exciting it must be to see Niall up close. I really do, trust me. But the thing is, Niall is still a human being. He still gets scared, he still gets upset, he still gets angry. He’s not a doll on a string that everybody can use whenever they like, not caring what he’s feeling. I’m sure that Niall would like some privacy. He’s still a teenage boy. Crowding around him isn’t going to make him like you anymore. I mean, I know that he loves his fans, but what I mean is, he’s not going to think, “Oh, that girl right there, one of the mutiple ones here who is not respecting me, yeah, she’s the one.” And that’s what it all boils down to, really. Respect. Which would you prefer more, an upset and unhappy Niall, or a happy Niall who is comfortable? I prefer happy Niall. If I was there, knowing how Niall feels about being in large crowds, I would have stood from afar, and watched him in the taxi, content with the fact that I even caught a glimpse of him. I wouldn’t run up to the car, and start screaming, and banging on it, and making a fool of myself. That would get me nowhere. I’m sure that Niall would have loved to not have been mobbed today. It just pisses me off.

I know that I wouldn’t want to be in that situation today, would you? Uh, no.

Point being, things like this are quite rude. The boys are more than happy to stop on the street, and take pictures with fans, or do signings, and all those things. But they aren’t to be controlled by their fans. They do have lives, apart from the group, contrary to popular beliefs.

Give them some space, sometimes.

Actually think about their feelings.

underthemistletoewithlarry:

nothing bad at least.

the sooner y’all get that through your head the better.

what’s going down today:

• the boys perform an amazing concert at MSG
• the irish one gets sentimental and starts crying
• they go back to their hotel and larry has celebratory sex

THAT IS ALL

all this drama is just making one of the most important days in their careers a shit show. and it’s not fair. 

so stop.

(via dailydoseoflarry)